Encourage donations in lieu of flowers...

Here is a sample text for your obituary, if it is helpful.

“In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Delaware Nature Society. Please send contributions to: Delaware Nature Society, Development Office, PO Box 700, Hockessin, DE 197077. Make checks payable to ‘Delaware Nature Society’ and include on the memo line the person’s name for whom the gift is being made.”